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Saturday, September 18, 2010
Where are you from?
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Sunday, September 5, 2010
It's time to lose some weight...
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This morning I'm sitting here on the patio of my bungalow and realizing that my life is pretty freaking amazing. I wake up pinching myself everyday that I've the opportunity to travel and see the world when so many are suffering right now. I'm currently in Paros and I think this will be a laid-back place for us after the frenetic sightseeing in Athens and the festive party atmosphere of Mykonos.
So far Greece has treated me well - all of our accommodations have been solid. Our room in Athens wasn't as spectacular as I'd hoped, but if that's the worst thing we'll experience then it was still fine –I loved the hospitality I was given there.
I'm also starting to feel much better now that I'm kicking the cold or bug I started getting in Athens. Yesterday I got a little over heated (too much time in the sun) and I started to break out in hives again, but today I'm clinging to the shade, avoiding direct sunlight and covering up my skin so that I don't melt like the vampires in "True Blood."
I’m also learning a lot about not getting so attached to my material things on this trip – at every location I’m leaving something behind simply because I have way too much luggage for all of the moving around we’re doing. We have been lucky with our transfers from the ferries in Mykonos and Paros, because our hotels picked us up and dropped us off for free. If I had to carry all of my luggage on public transportation - it would be absolutely horrendous.
The motivation behind the shedding of my seemingly unnecessary belongings is my superstitious hope is that if I leave something behind, eventually I’ll return. I’m mostly happy that all of the things I’ve left behind have been on purpose (I’m known to leave very important things unintentionally).
Now the only thing I have to do now is make sure I don’t weigh a million pounds by the time I leave Greece. So far the food has been good and I’m making my way through all the Greek desserts as well. I'll have fun trying them all though. It's worth every pound I'll gain. :)
Mwuah,
Georgia Peach
Thursday, September 2, 2010
On the road again...
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Tuesday, August 3, 2010
All good things must come to an end
Friday, July 23, 2010
Trust yourself
Monday, July 19, 2010
I'm an adventurous woman now
Hello my faithful readers:
This weekend I became an “adventurous woman” as my friend Javiera called me. If you know me well, then you know that I don’t do so well with heights. You’re talking to a girl who is more than a little frightened of going on a down escalator. So the fact that I actually got up the nerve to zip-line across the Honduran jungle is a pretty big deal.
The experience zip-lining or “canopy” as it is called here on Roatan, was the beginning of my birthday weekend celebration. The trip was organized as a treat for some of the more well-behaved kids from the tutoring program for SOL. Once I relaxed a little bit (about halfway through) I had an amazing time and just enjoyed the view from up in the air. For me zipping through the air was rather peaceful once I forgot that I was terrified of heights. Seeing the happy expressions on about 12 of the SOL kids after getting through the course was rewarding as well – they truly inspired me to face my fears.
After my morning of the canopy tour – we ended the night by going out for dinner and drinks in the West End section of the island – the part of town where we generally hang out most when we want to grab drinks or dinner. We went to local Balleda stand for dinner where I had a tasty pollo (chicken) one. Then we headed to Sundowners Bar (refreshing frozen margaritas), Mayan Lounge (vodka 2 for 1 special & the much needed ice-cold air-conditioning), then to the Blue Marlin (delicious brownie with vanilla ice-cream). After the Blue Marlin most of the group was tired from such a long day and we made a relatively early night of it and I was home and safely tucked into bed by 11 PM.
On my actual birthday I woke up super early again (it’s hard to sleep here past 6:30 AM because it’s so sunny and hot by then). Our power went out around 7 AM so I went outside to cool off at the docks. We’d decided that we would do a day-trip to West Bay (the area on Roatan where most of the resorts are located). After a 5-10 minute water taxi ride from West End we arrived to a strip of resorts and lots of beach. We walked the strip enjoying the cool water lapping at our feet. Then we had a lunch then headed back here to Sandy Bay. It was a relaxing day for me and I couldn’t think of a better way to celebrate my 32 years on this earth.
Mwuah,
A Broad
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Something to think about
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I’ve been here in Roatan, Honduras for exactly one week. In the meantime I’ve started to take note of my surroundings…Roatan has more Americans here than on the little island of Manhattan. I kid, but it has been strange to hear so many American accents since I’ve arrived. From what I’ve observed, many of the people who own businesses here (bars, resorts, restaurants and dive shops) are expatriates. I haven’t talked to many of the American expats yet, but I am curious about what motivates them to move here to the Honduras. Life here isn’t as convenient or easy as you’d find in most of the developed, western world.
Earlier this week we went to the neighborhood (Sandy Bay) where most of the kids who are helped by the School of Life (SOL) International Foundation live. It was an unsettling experience for me because the neighborhood was a mix of fancy resorts, nice beachfront homes and the homes of where the kids live. Some of the homes where the kids lived were in such stages of disrepair that they didn’t even look inhabitable to my untrained eyes; all of this was across the street from a luxury resort. Many of the other neighborhoods here (e.g. Coxen Hole) have similar tough living conditions.
I knew that Honduras is the second poorest country in America, but visiting has affected me more than I expected it would. It makes me realize that even my most humble living conditions were more like luxury homes in comparison to the homes of most of the kids who participate in SOL.
The things I’ve taken for granted-- potable drinking water, hot showers, food, shoes and education are all things that are not readily available for the kids that actively participate in the program. This is something that isn’t as easy to ignore when you’re not faced with it on a daily basis. I remember having this same uncomfortable feeling when I was in China earlier this year. How do you reconcile whining about not having the money to splurge for your next pair of the newest, hottest shoes when some kids don’t have any to wear?
The thing that gave me a little hope was seeing the kids have a good time at the SOL Recreation program, despite whatever they were facing at home. Five nights a week from 5-8 PM, the kids can come to the courts (an old unused basketball court that a local resort allows SOL to use) and play. SOL provides them with the space and a few basic pieces of equipment and crafts (e.g. balls, skates, books, construction paper, markers) to keep them from getting into trouble – gangs and drugs are a big problem here.
The most shocking thing was the number of two-year olds who walked into the courts on their own. I just couldn’t imagine as a parent allowing my two-year old to walk the streets by themselves especially at night. In fact throughout the whole evening we only saw one parent come to the courts with her four-year old son.
On the evening that we visited the courts there were about 35-40 kids participating. I saw kids playing fierce games of futbol (soccer) or basketball, drawing pictures and even rollerblading. That evening there was a great deal of ingenuity and perseverance from the kids using the rollerblades; all of them were using just one skate because of skill or simple availability of skates. It was a funny sight, but the kids were fearless and having a ball doing tricks on their self made obstacle courses. It was a humbling experience for me to see that this one little program seemed to give them an escape- a few hours for them just to have a good time.
My hope is that through our efforts we can recommend practical ways for SOL to implement more structure and procedures to the folks at SOL so that they can continue to help as many of the kids as they can. There is so much need here that it’s hard even with an MBA to decide what advice is relevant for the current situation. Resources – financial and human are severely limited for SOL. It’s tough to find suitable volunteers who are willing to spend the time it takes to keep the programs going for more than a month or two at a time.
If you’re looking for ways to make a difference – consider volunteering or donating to a worthy organization. To make a donation or find out about the opportunities to help SOL, click here.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
In transit
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Wow – I can’t believe that I’m sitting here typing this blog from my apartment in Roatan, Honduras. Life has changed a great deal for me over the past year – in fact at this time last year I was preparing to give notice to my job to embark on what has turned out to be the experience of a lifetime for me – pursuing my MBA at Vlerick in Belgium.
I’m here in the Honduras for one of my last projects as a Vlerick MBA student with my team of four other students (Chris, Javiera, Jess and Julio). We’re here to help School of Life (SOL) Foundation to put together a fundraising plan. SOL is a foundation, based here on Roatan to help children in the Sandy Bay community who are at risk youth – risk of drugs, gangs and dropping out of school.
I arrived in the Honduras on Thursday afternoon following a long travel, which involved me taking the train from Belgium on Tuesday afternoon to London. From London I flew to NYC where I had a few hours to try to get into the city from JFK, do a little shopping and take care of my much needed manicure-pedicure at my spot on 7th Ave and near 34th Street.
I also caught up with one of my best friends Olin when I was in NYC but only for about an hour and a half at his Spanish Harlem apartment. I wish we’d had the time to catch up a little longer, but I had a flight to catch, so I headed back downtown to wait for the train to Newark, NJ where I had a hotel room for the night. The New Jersey Transit trains to the Newark Airport where I was catching my hotel shuttle were delayed; after a 2+ hour wait at Penn Station, it was almost 3 AM by the time I made it to my hotel.
The next morning I was up bright and early to prep for my flight to Houston, TX where I had a short stay with one of my other best friends Gigi. I also got to meet my godsons (her twin boys) for the very first time since their birth a little over a year ago. It was great to see Gigi in mommy mode and to see the boys in action. They were adorable and although I couldn’t imagine myself raising twins, Gigi was in her element and you could see that she’d spent a lot of time creating an environment focused on their comfort and enjoyment.
I didn’t get to see much of Houston because of some of the most torrential rains I’ve ever seen. I made a mental note that I should NEVER visit that city during Hurricane season. That’s why I consider it a miracle that all of my flights in and out of Houston were on time.
Our apartments are located right off of a lovely beach and the views are amazing. Our apartment complex is lush with vegetation with lots of beautiful trees and bushes. I’ve also seen lots of hummingbirds, crabs and fishes since I’ve arrived. I don’t mind that we don’t have hot running water because to be quite honest the cold showers I take are a relief from the heat. I love it here, despite all of the creepy crawly bugs and flying bugs, an unavoidable part of life here in the Honduras, which have taken a liking to biting me (and the rest of the team).
My favorite thing to do so far is to sit at the beach or at the top of our pier and stare out at the ocean. My access to internet is limited and I don’t have a mobile phone here with me so far Roatan has been a great place to get a little thinking and reflecting done. Before I arrived I thought I would be freaked out by not having constant connection to the internet, but when you’re disconnected from the rest of the world it’s s relaxing and it gives me time to think about the future without the distractions I would normally have. I’m also getting a lot of reading for pleasure in, something I haven’t done much this past year because things were just too busy.
We’ll get started working on our project full throttle tomorrow. But for now we have the rest of this weekend to enjoy getting acquainted to Roatan and all of the pleasures it has to offer. It’s very laid-back and the team is a lot of fun. Let the good times roll!
Friday, February 5, 2010
Awkward situation #1046
Last night I had a lovely evening hanging out with my friends and fellow classmates. One of the highlights of my night was attending a reception for one of our visiting speakers, the former leader of the SDP in Iceland and Minister of Finance and Foreign Affairs and External Trade. It was here where I had one of the most awkward moments in my life.
Here's how it happened (as I recall). One of my classmates introduced me and another classmate to his wife (Mrs. Iceland), as Americans. Here's a rough approximation of what I remember from the exchange with Mrs. Iceland.
Me: "Hello, it's a pleasure to meet you."
Mrs. Iceland: "Hello, it's a pleasure to meet you. I thought you were African because you're so dark."
Me: (with a blank expression on my face if my classmates who were there can be trusted) "No, I'm American."
Mrs. Iceland: "I've been to America and I've never met anyone as dark as you are..."
My American Classmate (who happens to be caucasian): "No we've got plenty of people like her in America, especially in the south."
Mrs. Iceland: "Are you two here together?"
My American Classmate: "No we didn't come here together."
After this exchange, I checked out of the conversation and she proceeded to chat with some of my Indian classmates. My classmates and I laughed later about the situation with Mrs. Iceland, but I finally had a reason to discuss this topic on my blog. Race and it's effect on me has been on my mind for a while now. The one thing that I noticed since my move to Europe is there seems to be more openness to just say what they're thinking, even if it could be perceived as off-putting by others.
As an American, I find that Europe is not nearly as politically correct as the United States has become. People here are likely to utter racist, homophobic and misogynistic comments in public forums -- and that's what I've personally heard in English, I can only imagine what I'd hear if I spoke French or Dutch fluently.
For example, last week in our M&A weekend, one of the speakers made the slightly offensive comment "All you'd need to do is hire a couple of cheap Indians and you can get around the security of the virtual data rooms."
When I heard this comment, in a public forum, all I could think was if they had made this type of comment in America, they would have been fired or at least strongly reprimanded. One of my other classmates from a country in Eastern Europe also noticed the comment and mentioned that he was offended as well.
I have to say that since living here in Belgium, I've run into many people who have never met an "African-American" before. In fact, most people have never interacted with a person of color before. If I'm asked by one more person to touch my hair, I think I'll scream. I understand that for most people it is not coming from a hurtful or malicious place at all; they are curious and want to know more about the different texture of my hair. Somehow, as well-intended as it is meant to be, I always end feeling like some sort of animal at the petting zoo when the topic comes up.
Most of the people of color here in Belgium are from Africa and India. Especially amongst the Africans, I have noticed that there are not many working in high paying, professional careers. I do not begin to assert that I know enough about the reasons why there are so few Africans working in white collar careers here in Belgium, but I believe that it has to have some effect on how I'm viewed and treated outside of the safety of the walls of Vlerick.
When I first moved here back in August, I set up an appointment to view a studio apartment. I confirmed with the man on the phone that I would be there and when I arrived, an older (white) woman answered the door. She didn't speak much English, but from her body language, she was telling me that I wasn't welcome. I did not even get the chance to see the place and that was within my first week of moving to Belgium. The experience was painful, but I have tried not to let it color my experiences. It is my experience that most of the younger generation are a lot more open to other races.
Being here in Europe has awakened a curiosity to find out more about my roots. In the US, they started calling us "African-American" back in the 1990's, before that I was simply known as 'black' and if I'm honest, that is still what I refer to myself as most of the time. I don't have enough knowledge about my families roots to say where my family might have been from in Africa. It makes me wonder if I can truthfully call myself "African-American?"
What many people do not realize is how much diversity there is amongst "African Americans" in the US. We all have many different hair textures, skin tones and backgrounds. That diversity is what makes us such a rich, beautiful people.
What I appreciate most about this whole experience of living abroad is how different my life is from a year ago. A year ago, I would have never imagined that I would be sitting in the same room with the former Minister of Foreign Affairs and External Trade from Iceland. Although I have experienced a few awkward and uncomfortable moments since I've moved here, it's well worth it. I'm learning more about myself and growing as a person each day. Although there are days where I feel overwhelmed by the pressure of processing so many new experiences (+ my course work), I wouldn't trade this experience for the world.
The other day (before awkward situation #1046) one of my classmates said to me, "I don't see you as an African American, I just see you as an American."
I hope that one day we'll get to a place where all people will truly be judged by the content of my character and not the color of my skin and it won't matter so much.
Thanks for reading today. This is something I've wanted to get off my chest for a while. I'd love to hear what you're thinking. Sound off!
Mwuah,
Georgia Peach
Saturday, January 23, 2010
I was robbed!
To say that I've had a rough couple of weeks would be the understatement of the year, yet I still realize that my problems are nothing when compared with your average person's issues. I have a lot to be thankful for, like the fact that I have a roof over my head, food to eat (most of the time) and the clothes on my back. That's enough to give me the foundation of Maslow's Hierarchy, although yesterday the "safety" I felt in my (temporary) home was threatened.
Yesterday, I had a break-in to my studio apartment here in Leuven. Thankfully I was not here at the time (I was at school all day doing group work) and they really only made out with my cameras and lenses. I'm really pissed off, a little afraid and even more upset about having my space invaded and having someone to go through my things. I realize that in the scheme of things this is something that won't kill me, but make me smarter, tougher and hopefully more careful in the future.
When I came home yesterday, the first problem I noticed in my apartment, was that one of my shirts was in the trash can and that I hadn't put it there. The first thought I had was that my landlord had come in for some emergency and done some work because a few of my storage boxes had been moved and a lot of the bags, clothes, papers were all over the place. Someone went through all of my papers, they rifled through my passport and my travel wallet. I know because they tossed all of this stuff on my floor.
I called my landlord to make sure he didn't have anyone doing any work in here first. He told me that someone else in our building upstairs had their lock broken in a break in attempt - this didn't happen to me, because my lock did not look like it had been tampered at all. Hearing this last night, only made me more angry because I felt like this is information that should have been shared with all of the tenants in the building.
After speaking to him on the phone, he was no help because he was in Brussels at the time, I went to the police station near my building. It was closed, so I marched back home and called one of my friends here who kindly talked me down and helped me to find the number of the police. I called them and they sent officers over about a half hour later.
The two officers came in and looked around, asked me a few questions and had me to fill in a report. I was hoping that they would do some fingerprinting or something, but they didn't and they said that it would be impossible to get good prints off my leather camera bag. This is my second experience with the Belgian police in the last two weeks. I have to say that although they have all been nice, I believe I'd be a be a much more thorough police officer than they seem to be.
Leuven is supposed to be one of the safest cities in the world. Before yesterday I felt like it was and some of my classmates have left their doors unlocked here in Leuven. Now for me, it's a place where I will be looking over my shoulders and giving everyone the side eye wondering if they broke into my apartment and rifled through my things and stole my camera. This whole experience makes me even more homesick and I realize now, more than ever, just how charmed my life has been up until now. I'm just hoping that the rest of this year will be smooth sailing from here on out.
I have to say here how thankful I am for all of the calls, texts, facebook messages of love and support I've received from everyone. You have no idea how much it means to me and it will take me a little time to get back to normal, but you are helping me to speed the process up!
Mwuah,
Georgia Peach